37-year-old Mom pushes back against being an "unpaid lifeguard and babysitter" for neighborhood kid, parents blast her on Facebook

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  • Teens relax on a yellow pool floatie.
  • Im (37F) honestly still shaking a bit while writing this because i hate confrontation, but i feel like im being treated like a villain in my own neighborhood.
  • My husband and i bought our house about 2years ago. One of the main reasons we chose it was the backyard and the pool.
  • We have two kids (a son and a daughter), and they practically live in that water during the summer.
  • A few months ago, a new couple moved in next door with their 7year old boy.
  • At first, things were fine. We did the whole "welcome to the neighborhood" thing, and our kids played together a few times.
  • The problem started about 3weeks ago. The parents started sending their son over to play, but neither of them would come with him.
  • They'd just watch him walk across the lawn from their porch and then go back inside.
  • Little girl in red bathing suit, red sunglasses, and straw hat laughs with happiness while she floats in yellow pool floatie.
  • Basically, i became an unpaid lifeguard and babysitter for a kid that is not mine. The breaking point happened last saturday.
  • I told the mom earlier that morning that we were busy and could not have company.
  • Around 2pm, i looked out my kitchen window and saw her son inside my gated pool area.
  • This is bad news

    He had climbed over the fence. I ran out there and got him out safely, then walked him back home.
  • The parents are way too casual about this! Their son's safety is at risk here.

    Both parents were in their garage hanging out. When i told them what happened, they did not even look scared.
  • The dad just laughed and said, Oh, he's such a little fish! He just loves your pool so much, we did not have the heart to tell him no.
  • Then the mom chimed in with, It takes a village, right? I told them right then that he is not allowed in my pool area without me being there and one of them being there to watch him too.
  • I told them its a huge safety risk and im not comfortable with the liability. They both got really offended and called me heartless.
  • They said that since im already out there with my kids, it should not matter if one more joins in.
  • This would be my final straw, personally

    The mom even posted on our local facebook group (without naming me, but everyone knows) about wealthy neighbors who think they own the water and how some people have no sense of community.
  • Now, they are not speaking to me, and some of the other neighbors are giving me weird looks
  • I feel like im just trying to keep a kid from drowning and protect myself from a lawsuit, but people are making me feel like im being a mean girl because i wont let a 7year old swim whenever he wants.
  • Am I the j here? TL;DR: My married neighbors keep letting their 7year old son sneak into my pool without asking.
  • When I told them he's banned for safety and liability reasons, they called me heartless and complained to the neighborhood.
  • Backyard swimming pool surrounded by pool chairs and grassy lawn.

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